Be logical, reasonable, in circumstances you have to. But don't make a funnel of your personality. Although time fades, there ain't just time to worry about, pay attention to.

Still it is some effort, trying to adapt 'high performance apparel' to daily usage, normal situations, institutions and people. Out of ( fashion ) books, more facts and ideas must come; but they aren't about just one aspect of life, anyway, in the long-term of naturally cultivated experiences.