Missing patience. Missing desire. Missing dedication. As attraction doesn't come solely from beauty or intelligence, but also from interactions, standards, and more...

Which, at least intentionally, ain't a sexist milestone either: Low sexual desire causes «low imagination», and «bad performance». Better you just work, then. Work and work and work, if you're already satisfied, and already justified, for yourself. Do the duty, do some more, do it again. To be an example! If that's only what you're for, around the clock, around the calendar, around the sun. In your entire lifetime.

Following the social conventions of your beautiful society, remember never ever going insane, out of control, due to qualities, dreams and attitudes that desire suggests to free human beings. But "How to?", and that's another mystery, another difficult question. Better want, want it all, then, like you can't live without stuffs, for some self-respect. Like others can't live without stuffs as well, at least if they wish some prosperous future for themselves, too. By relying on warranties, promises and confidence, for their ambitions, rights, egoism, mutual respect; or whatever facts or things that are useful to keep a life and an affair going on, for as long as they must go on, to meet expectations. [ Now try to guess a woman in eternal silence; if you have anything to do about it. Not single!