Sexxx dreams, essential sex dreams, don't change overnight... and glad you are, when you are confident that, finally, you have found someone new, seductive and attractive, to play fresh love stories with you, accordingly. Fruitfully !
Not everybody does, of course.1
Just skip an XS-number of dirty words: sure dirty words can be exciting too, @least sometimes, if used 'correctly'. BUT! The focus for excitement, in a stunning woman, relies on starting interesting conversations*, experiencing different situations* ( featuring the much a new partner has to dare in his / her 'creative insanity'*. )
Not everybody does, of course.2
Almost nobody does, actually. And too many men totally suck, in seduction games, if you expect being seduced, instead of managing the entire situation for a confused partner. [ Starting wrong, or imperfectly, and likely you will like to start once again, for better. Until something is something, and not just simply a fact and a thing. ]